Thursday, September 27, 2018

Tackling communalism

One of the key strength of India is its multi cultural ethos and secular fabric. However its secular ethos have been/are being threatened by communal forces which try to inculcate and foster feelings from distaste/dislike to ill will and hatred against members of a different religious denomination. Time and again we have seen the menace of communalism rearing in its head in its most ugliest forms. Even during times of inter religious peace, one fears to believe that the monster of communalism is not destroyed but is always there festering just beneath the surface ready to erupt at the slightest provocation. That even efforts of great leaders like Mahatma Gandhiji could'nt find a lasting solution to this problem tells us that there is something fundamentally wrong in our methods which we have not addressed till date. Is there a way out?  

It is worthwhile to understand how these dislikes and hatred for other religions arise. Psychologically these feelings are only outward expressions/manifestations our inner "Prejudices". Prejudice refers to preconceived opinion or belief that members of a particular group will behave in a certain fashion irrespective of his/her individual nature. In other words it refers to negative attitude towards some people for the mere reason that they belong to a particular group or denomination. These prejudices are not based on logic, reason or experience and are predominantly learnt by a process known as "social learning" by way of  observing the behaviors of "significant others" vis parents, relatives, peers etc. More pertinent to our current discussion is the fact that this social learning takes root early in our early childhood which gets strengthened over time due to positive reinforcements received from the parents and others for displaying the desired ( ie prejudiced) attitude. So any effort to tackle communalism should factor-in this basic concept. 

The best way to tackle a problem is not to avoid it or be defensive about it but to face it head on. Wrong notions about religion should not be tackled by attempting to  suppressing them but rather we should attempt to replace them with the right notions. So I am of the opinion that its high time we include "Religion"  in our curriculum. Presently we do learn about religion indirectly as part of history but not as a proper discipline. We need to include teachings of all the religions, their scriptures and the teachings of their gurus. Children should also be taken to the places of worship of all religions to expose them to their distinct customs and practices. The idea does not call for a thorough or complete teaching in all religious scriptures to make them religious scholars but to expose and educate children about the key and salient principles of all religions of this world. Psychologically one of the reasons for aversion for a particular object is foreigness or non-exposure. So mere exposure to the customs and practices of all religions will have a significant effect on the overall perception of children. Not to mention that children should also be exposed to atheist concepts and other view points. By this exercise children will get an overall perspective which will make them accept the customs and practices of others and will slowly make them realise the truth that all religions preach one and the same thing and that the esssence of all religions is to promote indivdual and social harmony. In sum we should aim to intellectually equip our children to handle hate messages/propaganda of some vested interests and not be misguided by them.   


We are at challenging times. It is a sad reality that communal feelings are so deeply engrained that for some people even the sight of members of other religious communities elicits feeling of uneasiness. This is a war of perception and learning and hence unless we intervene at the childhood stage and tackle the issue at its roots the we may end up being mere witnesses to the whims and fancies of vested interests exploiting our inner prejudices to the detriment of our collective peace and well being. Think, act and change.

Tuesday, September 25, 2018

Think & let us change ourselves

Interesting story to ponder over.
 For   better   living,  we   must   change  our   attitude  &   actions  instead   of   complaining   others.

Once upon a time, there was a king who ruled a prosperous country. One day, he went for a trip to some distant areas of his country. When he was back to his palace, he complained that his feet were very painful, because it was the first time that he went for such a long trip, and the road that he went through was very rough and stony. He then ordered his people to cover every road of the entire country with leather. Definitely, this would need thousands of cows' skin, and would cost a huge amount of money.

Then one of his wise servant dared himself to tell the king, "Why do you have to spend that unnecessary amount of money ? Why don't you just cut a little piece of leather to cover your feet ?"

The king was surprised, but he later agreed to his suggestion, to make a "shoe" for himself.

There is actually a valuable lesson of life in this story : to make this world a happy place to live,we better change ourselves- our heart; and not the world.